Forgiveness Is For YOU - Overcome Trauma Through Forgiveness

S1E33 Navigating Infertility with Mama Jane Snyder

*Content Warning* This episode contains mature content not intended for persons under the age of 18.
Friends, 
In this episode, I am joined by Mama Jane Snyder, a fertility awareness instructor and Catholic Mindset Coach. Together, we explore the emotional and spiritual challenges of infertility, emphasizing the importance of forgiveness and self-compassion.
Jane shares her journey through seven years of infertility and how she now supports couples in similar situations. We discuss the unitive and procreative aspects of marriage, the cultural silence around infertility, and the impact of faith in navigating these challenges. This episode offers valuable insights for both men and women, encouraging a deeper understanding and compassion for those facing infertility.
Join us as we delve into the complexities of infertility, the significance of charting, and the power of trusting in God's plan. This heartfelt conversation is a beacon of hope and support for anyone struggling with infertility or seeking to understand it better.
Mama Jane's website: https://www.wisdomwellnesscoaching.net/home/
Relevant Links:
https://www.who.int/news-room/fact-sheets/detail/infertility
https://www.factsaboutfertility.org/wp-content/uploads/2014/09/SymptoThermalPEH.pdf
https://www.vatican.va/content/paul-vi/en/encyclicals/documents/hf_p-vi_enc_25071968_humanae-vitae.html
https://www.factsaboutfertility.org/wp-content/uploads/2017/12/BillingsPEH_REV3.pdf
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S1E32 Grief, Betrayal and Healing in Forgiveness

Friends,
In this episode, we delve into the complex emotions surrounding forgiveness, particularly in the aftermath of betrayal and deep personal loss. My exploration is framed by personal reflections on a former colleague's shocking conviction for sexual assault on minors, a person I worked closely with for 14 years. This experience has led me to reflect deeply on grief, identity, and the forgiveness process.
I compare grieving stages to phases of forgiveness, drawing from Bowlby and Parkes’ Four Phases of Grief Model, and use personal anecdotes and insights into how to navigate through these emotional phases.
I remind listeners that forgiveness is a deeply personal and transformative journey requiring acknowledgment of grief and a commitment to healing. I highlight the resilience of the human spirit in overcoming betrayal and finding hope through forgiveness. 
Resource Links:
https://www.dictionary.com/browse/bereavement
https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/books/NBK507885/
https://www.colorado.edu/ova/four-phases-grief-grieving-loss-loved-one
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S1E31 The Price of Revenge: A Scientific and Biblical Perspective

In this podcast episode, I explore the concept of revenge through scientific research and Catholic teachings. I begin by examining the contrast between a heart of stone, hardened by experiences of injustice, and a heart of flesh, capable of forgiveness and love.
Drawing from the Catechism of the Catholic Church and psychological research, I discuss how revenge impacts individuals psychologically and spiritually, often leading to further harm rather than healing.
The episode emphasizes the transformative power of forgiveness, highlighting its role in restoring inner peace and aligning oneself with God's compassion. Ultimately, it encourages listeners to embrace forgiveness as a path to healing and reconciliation, echoing the promise of a renewed heart and freedom through divine grace.
References:
Carlsmith, K.M, Gilbert, D.T., Wilson, T.D, (2008) The Paradoxical Consequences of Revenge
https://dtg.sites.fas.harvard.edu/CARLSMITH,%20WILSON,%20&%20GILBERT%20%282008%29.pdf
The Catechism of the Catholic Church Article 3: Man’s Freedom https://www.vatican.va/archive/ENG0015/__P5N.HTM
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S1E30 From Gratitude to Forgiveness with Amy Latino

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Friends,  in today's episode, I delve into the powerful connection between gratitude and forgiveness with my special guest, Amy Latino.
A devoted wife, homeschooling mom, and entrepreneur, Amy shares her compelling story of growing up with a father who struggled with his own traumas, leading to a strained relationship filled with emotional neglect and abuse. Despite these challenges, Amy reveals how a moment of gratitude for the gift of life led her to a profound sense of forgiveness for her father, years after his passing.
We explore the generational wounds, the impact of parental shortcomings, and how Amy's gratitude practice became a transformative tool in her journey toward forgiveness. This episode also touches on the complexities of forgiving within the context of systemic injustices and personal traumas.
Join us as we uncover the healing power of gratitude and the importance of never giving up on the pursuit of forgiveness, no matter how difficult it may be. This conversation is filled with insights and hope for anyone struggling with forgiveness. 
Amy Latino’s Links:
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Dish It Out Private FB Group https://www.facebook.com/groups/1278175459500138/
IG:  @dishitout_0
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S1E29 A Legacy of Love with Theresa Eppich

In this episode, Canadian Teresa Eppich, a fifth-grade teacher and author of the book A Legacy of Love, How a Holocaust Survivor Inspired Me to Live with Greater Freedom and Purpose shares the profound impact of her decade-long friendship with Eva Olsson, a Holocaust survivor who has touched countless lives with her message of resilience, love, and forgiveness.
Eva's incredible journey from surviving the Holocaust to becoming a celebrated author and speaker is a testament to her unyielding spirit and dedication to spreading hope. Teresa discusses how Eva's life and teachings have transformed her own perspective, emphasizing the importance of gratitude, love, and choosing to forgive despite unimaginable hardships.
Join me and Teresa as we explore the powerful themes of justice, forgiveness, and the enduring legacy of Eva Olsson. This episode is a moving tribute to Eva's legacy and a reminder of the crucial importance of remembering history to ensure it is never repeated.
Don't miss this inspiring conversation that highlights the radical courage of forgiveness and the transformative power of love.
Links:
A Legacy of Love, How a Holocaust Survivor Inspired Me to Live with Greater Freedom and Purpose:
https://www.amazon.com/Legacy-Love-Holocaust-Survivor-Inspired-ebook/dp/B0CVQYYD5G
Theresa Eppich Contact Info
Email:
cherishedjoyfulhearts@gmail.com
Instagram
@cherishedjoyfulhearts
Eva Olsson: Holocaust Survivor
https://www.facebook.com/p/Eva-Olsson-100063557193414/
 
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S1E28 Navigating Faith: Avoiding the Trap of Spiritual Bypassing

In this episode, I explore the concept of spiritual bypassing, a term coined by Clinical Psychologist John Welwood in the 1980s. I discuss how spiritual practices can sometimes be used to avoid facing unresolved emotional issues and trauma, particularly in the context of religious observance. Drawing from personal experiences and biblical references, I delve into the dangers of disordered religiosity and how it can hinder true forgiveness, spiritual growth, and healing. Join me as I uncover ways to cultivate a genuine relationship with God that embraces suffering and leads to holistic healing.
References:
John Welwood: Spiritual Bypassing https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Spiritual_bypass
Religiosity Etymology https://www.etymonline.com/word/religiosity
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S1E27 Taking Ownership in the Forgiveness Process

In this episode, I celebrate the milestone of 5,000 downloads and express my deepest gratitude. The episode takes inspiration from a listener's struggle with forgiveness, expanding on a discussion that began in episode 24 with Hannah Dustman. The episode also encourages reflection on the role one may take in conflicts and the tendency to self-blame.
Listener's comment:
I was floored by the description of Phlegmatic tendencies as I checked off every box! I think Hannah kind of hit on another aspect I was acknowledging about myself in that a lot of times I find myself not only trying to acknowledge what part I am responsible for in any type of relationship fracture, but I tend to look for ways to take it all on and remove any responsibility from the other person. It’s probably the conflict avoider in me.
But I can see the truth that it makes the process of “forgiveness” (I use quotes because sometimes I feel like a person doesn’t necessarily need me to forgive as much as I need to “get over” something) take longer. Refusing to allow my emotional reactions to real experiences, even if they haven’t yet entirely worked through reason, have their moment in the light takes a lot of work and maybe it’s the self-imposed work I resent more than any perceived hurt from another person.
I interpret the statement "get over it" as an invitation to explore underlying unhealed wounds, possible power dynamics, and abdicated responsibilities. I prompt listeners to question the power differentials within themselves and in their relationships. Listeners are urged to recognize and value their emotional reactions to circumstances and give them the time and consideration they deserve.
 Drawing wisdom from St. Paul’s teachings in Romans Chapter 7, I end on a hopeful note, reassuring listeners that they have the power to work through forgiveness.
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S1E26 Sacred Wounds: Family, Faith & Forgiveness with Claudine Noel

In this episode, I have a heartfelt conversation with Claudine Noel, Board-certified physician, Life Coach, Catholic convert, and the editor of the transformative book,  Sacred Wounds, Stories of Redemption, Healing, and Growth. We delve into the complex themes of family, faith, forgiveness, and the unique experiences and challenges faced by immigrants. This episode offers valuable insights into forgiveness, faith, and healing, it's a must-listen for anyone on the path of personal growth and healing.
The conversation stresses the indispensable role of forgiveness in the healing journey. We discuss challenges in identifying personal wounds to heal and understanding prevailing patterns and traumas we've inherited. We emphasize the importance of forgiveness in letting go of past painful experiences, thereby initiating true healing and growth.
The episode concludes with an exploration of how forgiveness, intertwined with faith, can trigger personal transformation and growth. It encapsulates our book's essence, 'Sacred Wounds', vividly portraying the stunning metamorphosis that can arise from suffering.
Links for Claudine Noel:
Sacred Wounds Book website: www.sacredwoundsbook.com
https://www.femininegeniuscoaching.com/
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S1E25 Navigating Forgiveness as a Melancholic with Tiffany Haller

This insightful episode of the "Forgiveness is for You" podcast ushers you into the intricacies of forgiveness for people with a melancholic temperament through the challenge-filled journey of Tiffany Haller, a resilient mother working through her forgiveness amidst marital separation.
With Dr. Silva's guidance, uncover the unique struggles melancholics face while aiming to forgive, be it their introspective nature, sensitivity, or tendency towards rumination. Further, she enlightens you on their fears and barriers, such as high expectations, vulnerability fear, and lack of closure, which often make forgiving oneself a daunting task.
Discover the helpful strategies that Dr. Silva suggests to tackle these tough challenges, predominantly self-awareness, self-compassion, journaling, and focusing on personal growth. Also, learn ways to release resentment and harness the transformative power of forgiveness for individual healing and growth.
In an emotional heart-to-heart with Tiffany, witness her recount the real-world struggles and victories of a melancholic coming to terms with forgiveness. Her narrative of dealing with self-judgment, decision-making issues, and understanding of her offenders' actions unfolds the realities a melancholic faces while seeking forgiveness through self-awareness.
In this meaningful conversation, delve deeper into the significance of emotional processing and faith integration on the forgiveness journey. Tiffany reveals how her faith plays a crucial part in aiding her emotional processing, sharing the cathartic release that comes from navigating demanding relationships, high personal expectations, and post-divorce ramifications.
Make your way through a profound discussion about the specific strengths within every person's character design and emotional perspectives, unveiling the potential for transformation by acknowledging and expressing emotions spiritually. Realize the crucial role of self-compassion and how difficult emotions can be processed and released with patience, time, and divine grace.
Tune in to this episode to gain essential insights on leveraging faith for personal growth and understand how to nurture a forgiving heart capable of overcoming even the toughest challenges. Let's embark on this inspiring journey together.
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S1E24 A Single Phlegmatic's Struggle with Forgiveness

This episode features a heart-to-heart conversation with Hannah Dustman, a single woman who grapples with her phlegmatic disposition and the process of forgiving.
Through Hannah's personal experiences and candid reflections, listeners are offered a glimpse into the unique path to forgiveness undertaken by a phlegmatic individual. Hannah’s story is a testament to the delicate balance between preserving peace and addressing issues calling for forgiveness.
This podcast episode is a thought-provoking exploration for anyone wishing to learn how temperament types impact the path to forgiveness, or for those desiring a greater understanding of their own forgiveness journey. Much focus is given to themes of self-understanding, personal reflection, conflict resolution, and embracing vulnerability. Hear firsthand, the host's battle with rumination and second-guessing, particularly within her own singlehood experiences.
Imbued with wisdom and candor, this episode is certain to appeal to anyone navigating personal relationships, internal conflicts and forgiveness, particularly individuals on a faith journey. Join us as we delve into the intricate relationship between phlegmatic temperament and forgiveness, uncovering their interconnectedness amidst spiritual battles and emotional struggles.
Connect with Hannah Dustman: https://www.metanoiacatholic.com/rc/hannah-dustman
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